What is Conflict, Really?

One of the biggest misconceptions about storytelling is that conflict has to be dramatic.
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When we hear the word, we often picture arguments, fights, villains, or major disasters. While those things can certainly create conflict, they are only a small part of the picture.

Conflict is simply a character wanting something and coming up against resistance.
That resistance might come from another person. It might come from circumstances. Often, it comes from within. Fear, guilt, uncertainty, loyalty, pride, grief, and self-doubt can all create compelling conflict.

Think about a character who wants to tell someone the truth but is afraid of the consequences. Or a character who wants to leave but feels responsible for staying. Nothing dramatic may happen on the surface, yet the reader feels the tension because something important is at stake.

In fact, some of the most powerful stories are built on quiet conflict; making a difficult choice, overcoming an internal obstacle, or facing an uncomfortable truth.

When you're writing, try asking yourself a simple question: What does my character want right now, and what's stopping them from getting it?

Tell me, what kind of conflict do you find most compelling to write or read: internal conflict, relationship conflict, or external obstacles? Let me know in the comments.

Until next time, happy writing!